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Interesting Connection Between Higher Intelegence and Sex

High IQThere is a great deal of speculation about how people with high IQs are different than those of average intelligence. Academic performance, financial status, and higher levels mental functioning are a few of the obvious ways in which the two are different. But there are some not so obvious differences as well. There are some interesting theories about how those with a high IQ are different sexually, than those of average intelligence.

1. They start later

The average IQ is around 100, with approximately 86% of people falling somewhere between 85 and 115. In one study, an adolescent with an average IQ was anywhere from one and a half to five times more likely to have had sex than someone of the same age whose IQ was in the range of 120-130. For each additional IQ point, the odds of virginity rose by more than 2%!

By the age of 19, approximately 80% of males and 75% of females have had sex. About 87% of college students have had sex. However, one study found that at colleges that have extraordinarily high admissions standards – the elite universities – that number drops significantly to about 56% to 60%.

2. They have less partners

Not only do intelligent people have a delayed onset of sexual behavior, another recent study found that they also have a much lower number of premarital sex partners throughout adulthood than those of average intelligence. Some may contend that this is consistent with the belief that those with higher intelligence are more religious or conservative, but actually the opposite is true. Piousness correlates with lower IQ scores.

So, what is the explanation? Evolutionary psychologist Aurelio José Figueredo , a higher executive functioning of the brain is related to using means other than having a high number of sexual partners and frequent sexual encounters to perpetuate the human species. In other words, if you have a high IQ, you know that you don’t need to have a lot of sex with a lot of different people. You’re able to use intelligence to attract a mate and reproduce. Thus, highly intelligent people do not feel the need to engage in sexual activity with a wide pool of partners in order to try to successfully reproduce; they rest assured that focusing on promotion of their intelligence will not necessarily hinder their ability to reproduce at a later period. This is rather primal, but it may offer an explanation as to why those of higher intelligence have fewer partners than their counterparts of average intelligence.

3. Sex drive: Higher or Lower

Here is where there is a bit of controversy in the research.

One theory suggests that the reason that those with higher intelligence have less sex and less partners is that they simply have a lower sex drive. There has been research to suggest that testosterone tends to suppress IQ. Thus, someone with a high IQ, in this scenario, would have a lower libido because of lower testosterone levels. Whether someone has a higher intelligence because of a high IQ or if a high IQ suppresses testosterone has not been discussed.

On the opposite side of that theoretical spectrum is a recent study about sex toys. It turns out that students at two of the world’s most prestigious universities, Oxford and Cambridge shelled out a combined $29,000 on sexual paraphernalia last year. This would suggest that the libidos of the highly intelligent are the same, if not slightly higher than, those of average intelligence.

 4. Delayed gratification

A more psychological theoretical approach suggests that the reasons for a late entry into sexual encounters and a lower number of sexual partners are attributed to delayed gratification. Those who are highly intelligent are more likely to achieve higher levels academically. This often means years dedicated to the pursuit of education and degrees. While there are many who want instant gratification, those willing to sacrifice years of their lives in the pursuit of advanced degrees may also delay gratification in other aspects of their lives as well, as may be the case with their sexuality.

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  • Angel Metempsych

    Correlation is not causation.

    As a data point, I am part of the correlation– I was reasonably attractive, with healthy libido, and a virgin through my teenage years.

    However, I did not then and do not now see much value in delayed gratification or any other reason for abstinence, given proper precautions (birth control and protection from STDs).

    In my own anecdotal experience, with focus on cause rather than correlation, I was abstinent mainly because I was an outlier with underdeveloped social skills.

    Peer groups are age-compressed during adolescence and defined mostly by physical development. By definition, high IQ means that one’s intellectual peers are older (e.g., a 10-year-old with IQ of 140 has a 14-year-old intellect in a 10-year-old body).

    Interests that might intrigue a college-age girl don’t appeal to Sweet-16, and it was not until college that I was thrown into a mix where I could develop social/dating skills. Hence, my own -unwilling- abstinence until 21.

    • Drakaël

      Take a look at the MBTI personality types, which is a system that type people in one of 16 different types, 8 introvert and 8 extrovert, you will notice that the “uderdeveloped social skills” are typical of introverted people, and the four type with the hightest IQ are introverts and the three type with the worst average IQ are extroverts. So it’s, in general, that people who are less social oriented are more intelligent (IQ related).

      • Bongstar420

        “Underdeveloped” with respect to “social skills” is a term that people who depend on social networks to survive invent to act like the problem is with those who do not value those networks.

        I’d rather work with a mildly autistic genius than a normal person because your “socializing” abilities are practically irrelevant to me. Groups are more of a burden for me than a blessing given that others typically profit more off my own work than I do give the relative input differential.

    • Giannis Ganatsios

      I think you pretty much nailed it there. I could have written pretty much the same. It is not social skills, but basically character that turns them away really. We are attracted to similar people than the other way around. I would bet that social life with like minded people was also better. Also high IQ has been found to lead to decreased aggressiveness, which is a trait that women favor. Less vulgarity, a more rational behavior in general also turn women away. I am really tired of hearing women complain that they only find jerks and then hear them complain about a guy that he is too predictable or kind. Now among women of similar educational level things are better true enough, although the same tendencies exist there as well to some degree, as smart people would enjoy intercourse with a sexy albeit stupid woman. It’s perhaps why relationships among smart people tend to stick better and not break from silly arguments later in life. Stats exist that show illegitimacy, single motherhood and other dysfunctions dominate in low IQs, now that societal and economic pressures have disapeared. The other problem is that women are more in the mean that the extremes, so high and low IQ women are more unusual. Ayn Rand had said that relationships is about giving value for value. If you value that aspect in yourself it is virtually impossible to respect someone without it and it will show.

      • Micah6:8

        Start with the hypothesis that people of similar IQ are much more likely to form a sexual relationship with each other, and a later age at first sex becomes statistically predictable. Take all the males and a females in a school with 1000 students, half male, half female (and assuming everyone is hetero for simplicity of the math). Assume 50 have IQs at the 95th percentile or higher, but the students don’t know who else is in the top 5% until they meet. Assume that each student can meet one potential mate per day and meetings occur randomly, therefore the time required to meet the entire opposite sex population is equal to half the number of people in the population or 500 days. The matchup rate for the top 5% will be 5% * 5% = 0.25% per day, or about 2.5 potential match meetings per day out of a sub-population of 50. Compare this to the middle 50 percent of the population, where its 50% * 50% = 25% matchup rate or 250 per day out of a subpopulation of 500. Result being that if you’re in the middle 50% you meet someone you might be happy to have sex with about every other day, but if you’re in 95th percentile & up, you meet someone you might like to have sex with about once every 20 days. Now clearly the rate at which one meets people of similar IQ to oneself is not purely random, people do self-select into similar social, academic and professional groups and this reduces the statistical disparity, but this is also an oversimplified model, and lots of other dimensions besides intelligence come into play for mate selection. Overall I believe that, for those who are ‘rare’ types in any way, the rate at which one has the opportunity to meet up with potentially “good match” mates is far less frequent that for those who fall into the “average” spectrum of the population, and this alone implies an older age for first sex and fewer partners over a lifetime.

        • Alina Zagitova

          Meetings don’t occur randomly. Smart kids start hanging out with other smart kids quite early, because they participate in academic competitions and stuff like that since a high school and ever earlier. If one is really smart they will soon find themselves surrounded my their intelligence peers.

          • Bongstar420

            No. 90% of smart kids are forced into the normal population and expected to suffer their lower standards. Only the kids that are approved by the establishment get to move up, though that move tends to be relatively marginal as in, ya they get to be around others that better understand, but they are still subjugated by lessers who have more wealth and are expected to adhere to the standards of wealth holders per se rather than the intelligent per se.

            Look at the wealth distribution. There are 9 very high IQ people for every rich person.

          • Tyler Mckendry

            Not necessarily. You assume a high achieving personality in this scenario, but there are a plethora of factors that would prove this to the contrary, the most obvious being psychological temperment, upbringing, past experiences and just general sociability. For example a kid with aspergers could be absolutely brilliant in mathematics but totally inept in peer to peer interactions. In this case and many others (not quite as severe) you have independent development of intelligence and sociability

      • Bongstar420

        Is that why most women say they are attracted to intelligence then go on to reject all of the most intelligent men due to character flaws they aren’t even qualified to evaluate? Or why most women are manipulative and incapable of being direct in a large fraction of their “relationships?”

      • Tyler Mckendry

        I think you’re absolutely right on the topic of sociability. I would like to add that more intelligent people aren’t just analytically smart, but also emotionally smart. An intelligent person is an expert in pattern recognition and when bullshit is coming the defense mechanisms go up. How many inconsequential or even detrimental relationships are avoided by this skill and how much does this contribute to the statistic that more intelligent people have less sex? Maybe we’re playing a game of quality whilst everyone else is playing one of numbers.

    • alan white

      IQ and norming against age is not used any more. Yes, it started out that way.

      • Bongstar420

        There are more high IQ results among the youth.

        In order to get proper results, you must norm against age. Adult IQ results are far far more meaningful than children’s.

        • alan white

          Your comment doesn’t make sense to me. If “Adult IQ results are far far more meaningful than children’s” how would you then norm them against age?

          Iq tests given now do not norm against age. They do, however take age into account.

          • Bongstar420

            They do. Children have a lot more plasticity in their brains due to higher levels of NGF’s….the result of this is that younger populations have a somewhat broader distribution vs the older populations which means there are slightly more higher IQ kids than adults. Learning is significantly related to getting higher IQ scores.

  • Adam Mian

    Perhaps the cause, in general, for this is simply a tiny pool of acceptable partners paired with increased anxiety levels during teen years. There’s also a definite communication barrier between the above average (120+) and the average (103), that seemingly render us fundamentally different from the masses.

    You sound incredibly arrogant in this article. Do we all do that?

    • Bongstar420

      If we can’t just have sex, then it will certainly not work for us. The norms will not like it either because they are not able to gain a top position without us simply giving it to them. They want to feel like peers and can’t accept the objective power differential. If the smarts allow themselves to be lowered into believing and acting like the norms, the norms will be very pleased and will opt for the smarts each and every time. But in no way can you use your smarts to do anything but validate their core.

      • David

        Could it be that me at 35 still a virgin could be having a high Intelligent Quotient? How do I measure or access my IQ level with respect to sexual abstinence ?

  • Amanda Smart

    I think there might be a better understanding and analysis of risk among higher IQ people as well. Even with protection, sex is risky. This is likely a contributing factor in smarter people being less likely to engage in sexual risk taking. I know this is personally the cause of a lack of my own sexual adventurousness. I can’t get past the risk vs reward enough to engage in the same sexual behaviors as other women my age.

    • I did a cost benefit analysis before marriage. I didn’t want to deal with all the hassles that come with sex .

      • Bongstar420

        The hassles not worth suffering are all choices she imposes in order to derive a profit from sex…IE. She puts sex, get more than sex. Who does more and accepts more short comings to get sex? Who imposes demands outside of sex to get sex most of the time?

        • Sex is related to profit and will always remain so. Delayed or not, it is about getting pleasure which somehow affects the psychology. I am glade I decided to do it after marriage because it is more enjoyable in a secure environment.

          • Bongstar420

            Well, I guess I think that its a bad deal most of the time. Nothing wrong with mixing sex with various other things, but some of us guys just won’t be happy simply getting lays out of it.

      • RationaliseThis

        You are a rare intellect indeed. A testament to Darwin’s theory on natural selection.

    • Bongstar420

      Sex is less risky than simply being in a large group if you and the person you do sex with can refrain from self deception and other deception.

      You are far more likely to die of MRSA with 0 sex than you are to die of an STD with mountainous quantities of sex. You are more likely to get raped by your long time partner than a random stranger.

      Your problem is most men represent only the possibility of orgasms and most are probably going to fail at operating sex because they have been socialized to care about all the peripheral demands of common women. Since you want sex for more than sex, well, most men are more risk than reward.

  • Bongstar420

    Its because high IQ women see through the facade and can see the future possibilities on the first meet. Most people are horribly constricting to the high IQ/intellectual. My problem is they are usually not sexed up, and despite their high IQ’s/intellectualism, they don’t understand their sex lives are hardly dependent on relationship quality and that it is wrong to expect sex to be sacrificed as payment for relationship…in fact, I suspect that there may be a inverse relationship between sex and relationship quality were the best sex partners provide the worst connections. Way to many people in what is considered good relationships have the lowest quality sex lives. Coincidentally, relationships are seem to always end up being about subsidizing needs rather than sharing desires.

  • Elizabeth

    Sex is a primitive act, endorsed mostly by a very retrograde survival mechanism. We passed the homo-habilis ‘s period of the sperm race, millions of years ago!!!! Back at that time, the disadvantages, risk and irrational remorse and culpability were not part of our decisions maker the frontal lobe….It wasn’t even there completely. We got bunch of tribal enemies, few food and few of us in we needed to hurry up. Nowadays there are so many other options and choices to satisfy our-selves twice than unsatisfactory and ephemeral barely ten minutes of endorphins explosion!! And for what?? To exchange millions of bacteria and germs in people that if are not infected with some venereal or genetic disease through saliva, breath, sweat and worse sexual fluids, they might have some personality disorder and mental unbalance?? No thanks!!! Besides an extreme promiscuous behavior is an indicator or borderline narcissism, bipolarity or any sort of incapacity to connect to a higher level beyond the physical with another being…Yes it happens also with animals. Species highly evolved as swans, flamingos and dolphins show a perfect symmetry at mating and are monogamous their whole existence and for that their communities have 80 % less change to spread disease to each other and they live almost to their life limits. While less intelligent species as dogs, cats, rats, rabbits or chimps live less because of transmitted diseases or in fights to dispute a female!!!!! Yes i am happy having a higher CI,thank to that i can go to sleep every night being proud and happy about my self, and knowing i can die tomorrow but not because of venereal diseases or any sort of contagious and nasty one!!!!

    • RationaliseThis

      I can see a lot of ladies rationalising their breeding themselves into non existence. There is saying “too smart by half”. We will see a great many moderately intelligent women eventually suffering the loneliness and tragedy of childlessness because they were just smart enough to follow a complicated feminist argument but not smart enough to see it as nonsense. The tragedy of European peoples is autogenocide by pseudo-intellect.