An elusive state of mind, yet the most sought after by each of the living mortals, happiness is something everyone yearns for. Sadly enough, only a few with the right perspectives in life manage to feel the real contentment that comes from being truly happy.
So, is happiness merely a result of your circumstances or can you actually make a conscious choice to be happy in life? The very fact that your circumstances are often beyond your control tells you that you cannot depend on them for your joy in life. Whether in sunny or in rainy days, being happy is a conscious, righteous and a very personal choice you can make.
Questions to ask
Before we set out to show how exactly to be happy is a choice you can make, just ask yourself a few crucial questions as below:
So when exactly do you say you are ‘happy’?
- When you have the right circumstances?
- When you have all that you want?
- When you are doing what you really want to do in life?
- When you are healthy, have money and/or have a family?
Well, the list could just go on! For all of us who always thought happiness is something that comes to us when all is well in our lives, its perhaps time to think again. Check out the 5 key facts which redefine the very concept of being happy in life.
THE 5 KEY FACTS
1. It’s an attitude
Staying happy with yourself and your surroundings basically comes from the right attitude. Being happy comes from an ability to see positives in life (even when you are going through a hard day or negative events). Some might call it being optimistic, but it’s not just being blindly hopeful all the times. Instead, true happiness lies in realizing from within that there is always a brighter side to every situation. All you need to do is practice to see that side and choose to be happy whatever might happen.
2. It can be learnt with practice
Against what is generally believed, being happy and an optimist is something you can learn by practice. Once you’ve realized that it’s in your hands to be truly satiated, just keep a conscious check on your negative thoughts. Keep company of positive people and read good books. You can even post small notes in your work area or living room reminding you to abstain from negative and unhappy thoughts. I understand you can’t completely block negativity in your life, but try to pay attention to your reaction to it. You know the famous worry pic. If you have a solution that there’s nothing to worry about. If you don’t, then worry won’t fix anything 🙂
3. All you need is the will power
If you settle for nothing less, you will surely achieve it! With the right will power and the belief that you can remain happy if you really want to, nothing is impossible. Learn to look at the brighter side of life, have enough patience and believe that the world is an amazing place. Remember, you can do anything you set your mind to.
At the end of it all, just remember happiness is a choice, not a result. Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy.